These two young girls developed a new awareness of how truly loving relationships and commitments develop and are sustained. We talked about the self-respect and courage involved in leading sexually abstinent lives until marriage. I then told them about my having pre-marital sex, and how I wished these relationships had never occurred and that the only true way to find out if a guy loves you is to make him wait until marriage. We also talked about girls' feelings when they are rejected after giving part of themselves to another person. We first tackled the issue of sex as 'showing love' or 'keeping a boyfriend.' I used the girl they were talking about as an example of how boyfriends come and go whether girls have intercourse with them or not. They also assumed that condoms would protect them from disease and pregnancy and that having sex had no implications for their future adult lives. Kathy said, 'She's trying to keep a boyfriend.' They assumed that having sex was a way of holding onto a boyfriend and showing love for one another. I asked them why they considered her a slut, and Michelle responded: 'She has slept with at least eight guys already, and she is easy.' I asked them to think about why this girl is so promiscuous. I started these discussions when I accidentally overheard my sister Kathy, and her friend, Michelle, talking about a 'slut' that one of their friends was dating. Also, she is a virgin (her friend is, too), so I wanted to show her how important it is to hold onto that purity. I felt that it was my responsibility to pass the philosophy of abstinence on to my sister because I know that she will not get it in the 'going to do it anyway' program that is used at her high school. Sure, I have always known what the word meant, but I had never considered it an option for me, until recently.

I wanted to inform my 14-year-old sister Kathy about something that I unfortunately just began to take seriously: abstinence. I recently completed a graduate course in character education in which we were required to carry out an 'action project.' For my project I chose to use character-based sex education to try to instill in my younger sister and her friend the self-respect, self-control, and courage needed to lead moral, fulfilling, and healthy lives.

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